Wednesday, May 14, 2025
Pope Leo XIV's address to the Eastern Churches
Friday, May 2, 2025
Today is the 30th Anniversary of Orientale Lumen
The letter was written for the purpose of enlightening all Catholics about the riches of the Eastern Churches, as well as for the purpose of unity within the whole Church. St. John Paul II explained,
Our Eastern Catholic brothers and sisters are very conscious of being the living bearers of this tradition, together with our Orthodox brothers and sisters. The members of the Catholic Church of the Latin tradition must also be fully acquainted with this treasure and thus feel, with the Pope, a passionate longing that the full manifestation of the Church's catholicity be restored to the Church and to the world, expressed not by a single tradition, and still less by one community in opposition to the other; and that we too may be granted a full taste of the divinely revealed and undivided heritage of the universal Church which is preserved and grows in the life of the Churches of the East as in those of the West.
The central chapters of the letter explain Eastern Christian spirituality in light of monastic life, giving a poetic synthesis of the essence of Eastern monasticism and inspiring our founding bishop, Bishop John Kudrick, in 2008, to invite interested men and women to consider participating in the foundation of monasteries in the Eparchy of Parma. He wrote,
Pope John Paul II’s apostolic letter "Orientale Lumen" ("The Light of the East") devotes considerable attention to monasticism as a necessary "reference point for all the baptized" (9). He states that monasticism is the "very soul of the … church" (9) [All such numbers are references to "Orientale Lumen"].
We cannot deny the blessings of monastic experience, past and present, here and elsewhere in our church, but we must be open to re-visioning. This may take the form of extending a present experience or taking a totally new approach. I envision either a men’s or women’s monastery, or both, that will be based on the spirit of "Orientale Lumen." We must take advantage of the "extraordinary flexibility" of Eastern monasticism to "personalize (it to) the times, rhythms and ways of seeking God … to fulfill the expectations of (this particular) church in (this) period of its history" (13).
Mother Cecilia was moved by Bishop John's invitation, especially the quotes from Orientale Lumen, and though she didn't know much about Eastern monasticism, she soon wrote to Bishop John with her interest.
Orientale Lumen continues to inspire the nuns of our monastery, especially during our current process of revising our monastic typikon (rule of life) which uses the chapter titles of the Apostolic Letter as its outline. The three nuns involved in the revisions are entering deeply into the letter, seeking to more fully understand it and allow it to breathe new breaths of the Spirit into our foundational document.
The photo above is from our "JPII Room," a sitting room in the monastery with books, images and relics of St. John Paul II, a beloved "father" of our monastery. The two books pictured are two original copies of Orientale Lumen, one in English and one in Ukrainian, handed by St. John Paul himself to Fr. Dennis Hrubiak in 1995, who donated them to our monastery a few years ago.
We think that anyone can benefit from reading Orientale Lumen, regardless of their particular Tradition or vocation. It's not a long read. May it help you to more fully understand the Church and her beauty, as well as the gift of monastic life to the Church and to your life.
Saturday, April 19, 2025
Pulled up by the Wrist
A Paschal Reflection by Mother Cecilia
My favorite part of the icon of the Descent into Hades is the way Jesus is pulling up Adam and Eve by their wrists. This depiction communicates that He is the one doing the action, not the first-created couple by their own ability to grasp hold of Him with their hands. This gives me so much hope. He comes to me in my Hades, my sin, my despair. He comes into my hopeless situations, and then there is hope, because He is our hope.
But, it is also a challenge. If I want Jesus to come and pull me up by the wrist, I have to let myself be needy. I have to acknowledge that He is God and not me. I have to stop trying to control everything. I have to stop acting like I can pull myself up. I have to cry out, "Help!," and then wait for Him to help, in the way He chooses to help. His idea of help, with my eternal salvation and the salvation of my brothers and sisters in mind, isn't always my idea of help. I'd like immediate solutions, according to my preference. I don't want to wait, and I don't want to remain in my weaknesses. Faith, which is given to us as a gift, tells me that He is helping me. Some days it is easier to believe than others. He knows. It's ok.
As we celebrate the Resurrection of Christ and praise Him for pulling us up from Hades, you may not feel a lot of joy. Maybe there are very difficult situations happening in your life right now. You don't have to manufacture Paschal joy in order to be a good Christian. Joy, like faith, is also a gift. The Lord is not sitting there judging how much joy we have. However, He is inviting us to let Him give us joy. His joy, like His help, comes as He chooses. It is often a surprise. And His joy is deep and steady, welling up like a spring from within us where He resides.
Please be assured that even nuns struggle to let Jesus pull them up by the wrists and give them His joy. You are certainly not alone! Let's sing together in faith these words from ode 8 of the Paschal Canon:
Come, on this glorious day of resurrection, and partake of the fruit of the new vine, the divine joy of Christ's kingdom, ever praising Him, our God!
Wednesday, April 16, 2025
The Coming of the Bridegroom
Enjoy this reflection written by Mother Gabriella for the Hope's Garden blog:
The Coming of the Bridegroom in the Byzantine Tradition
Monday, March 3, 2025
A message for the Great Fast from our hegumena, Mother Cecilia
“In this short time You have arranged to heal the great wounds of our soul.”
I typically dread the start of the Great Fast; this ascetical season is so incredibly difficult, beyond my strength—the fasting, the long services, the spiritual combat. Last week, I was already struggling so much with all my responsibilities, and I couldn’t imagine how I could possibly add to the struggle by taking on the disciplines of the Great Fast. I had a little breakdown. And on the other side of my breakdown I realized that I was trying too hard!—trying too hard to be virtuous, to be a good leader, to pray well, etc. That’s why it was too hard for me: the Lord wasn’t asking me to try so hard.
I’m not sure what the Great Fast is going to look like for me, as I try to not try so hard in a time of year that is seen as a time to try harder! But what I do know is that I was deeply moved by this line from the Ambon Prayer (a prayer near the end of the Divine Liturgy) on Cheesefare Sunday (the day before the start of the Great Fast): “In this short time You have arranged to heal the great wounds of our soul.” It is God’s work, and He has planned out our healing! Yes, I need to cooperate, but all too often my efforts are a result of thinking it’s all up to me.
During these forty days, I invite you to join me in looking at the Lord and how He is loving us, rather than focusing on our ascetical efforts and whether or not we are doing them well. Join me in ignoring those condemning voices that tell us we are failing, that we are not good enough—those voices of the enemy that cause us to look only at ourselves (or at our neighbor, comparing ourselves and judging them). Let’s bring our wounds to the Divine Physician so that our ascetical practices (or, our inability to do them) will be healing medicine in His hands.
I also invite you to pray the Ambon Prayer, below, in its entirety. May God be with you on your Lenten journey!
“We thank you, O Lord Jesus Christ, that You have brought us to this opportune time of fasting towards salvation, for in this short time You have arranged to heal the great wounds of our soul, and to bring about the rejection of our many sins. Good Master, we pray You, remove from us any pharisaical hypocrisy in fasting, and banish all false sorrow. Drive from us all pride in our self-denial and moderation in deeds, words or thoughts. Fill us with light and the truth which You have taught. Strengthen us in the struggle against passions and in the war against sin. By alienation from passions prepare us to follow You by our fasting. Show us victory over the devil, that we may partake of Your death and resurrection, and rejoice in the joy which You have prepared for those who hunger and thirst for righteousness. For You are the God of mercy, and glory is Yours, together with the Father and the Son and Your all-holy, good and life-creating Spirit, now and ever and forever. Amen.”
Wednesday, December 18, 2024
The Entrance of Maddie & Rose
Christ the Bridegroom Monastery received two new dokimoi (postulants) during Vespers on Sunday, December 15. Madison ("Maddie") Hebert is from the Proto-Cathedral of St. Mary Byzantine Catholic Church in Sherman Oaks, California, and Rose Tsakanikas is from St. Sophia Ukrainian Greek-Catholic Church in Garner, North Carolina. Dokimos means "one who is approved by testing." This first period of the monastic life is a time for the dokimos to try out the life, and it is also a time for the monastic community to become more deeply acquainted with the one who wishes to live this life. Her ability to live the life, to accept correction, to love and be loved, and to grow, is "tried." Like gold mined from the ground, she begins to experience the monastic purifying fire that will make her "pure"--in other words, "of one substance," all gold, oriented to the love of God.

The service for the reception of the dokimoi took place in the midst of Vespers in the monastery chapel, celebrated by Bishop Robert. The brief service included a special Epistle and Gospel reading, a prayer over each of the young women by the bishop, and the blessing of their head coverings and crosses, which the new dokimoi put on with the help of the youngest members of the monastic community.
Bishop Robert then gave a beautiful homily about the monastic life. Comparing the entrance of the dokimoi into the monastery to the recent feast of the Entrance of the Theotokos into the Temple, he said:
"How fitting it is, with family, pastor, and now your sisters...to come to this day of entrance...ready to put yourself before God (recognize already the temple that you are by the power of the Holy Spirit...) and to make your very life a sign, as we just heard in the prayer, of the fleeting nature of this life and our life being about the kingdom of heaven. Monasticism is baptism radically lived. We begin this evening the celebration of the holy prophet Haggai. Monasticism is a community of women--or men--who each themselves have a prophetic role in the world today. And in one way we need not be overwhelmed by that aspect of the fullness of life that you now, in a very formal way, begin to discern, because it is the life itself that is prophetic--the life itself."Supporting Maddie in person for the entrance were her parents, pastor Fr. Michael O'Loughlin and friend Libby Reichert. Rose's guests were her parents, grandparents and nine of her thirteen siblings. The monastic community and guests spent time over the weekend praying together and enjoying meals and recreation, discussing the pain of the impending separations, sharing funny stories, and widening their hearts to receive the many new members of their "family."
Please pray for Maddie and Rose as they begin to live monasticism and continue to discern God's will for their lives.
Tuesday, December 10, 2024
Please pray for Maddie & Rose, entering Sunday
It is with great joy that we ask you to please pray for two young women as they enter our monastery as dokimoi (postulants) on Sunday, December 15. Here are some very basic facts about them and some quotes from the "theological reflections" section of their applications. They have a good understanding of the purpose of monastic life; now they will find out what it's like to live it! (And therefore will need your prayers!)
Madison ("Maddie") HebertSanta Clarita, California
29 years old
Parish: Proto-Cathedral of St. Mary Byzantine Catholic Church; Sherman Oaks, California
M.A. in Clinical Mental Health Counseling; Franciscan University of Steubenville
"[Monastic life] is not primarily for the sanctification of the world, but rather the individual and through their individual holiness, they make healthier the greater body of Christ, the Church. The monastic life is a life of reception and reliance upon Jesus, not of production, but of uselessness in the world's eye."
"I hope to mature in receiving the extent of Jesus' love that He desires to gift to me, to 'let [myself] be drawn' to 'the one whom my soul loves,' allowing Him to, 'penetrate [...] all the fibers of [my] life'" (Blaise Arminjon, The Cantata of Love: A Verse-by-Verse Reading of the Song of Songs, 72; 99; 61).
Rose Tsakanikas
Garner, North Carolina
26 years old
Parish: St. Sophia Ukrainian Greek-Catholic Church; Garner, North Carolina
M.A. in International Relations; Jagiellonian University, Krakow, Poland
"It is not simply the place though that the monastic seeks. Christ was not seeking the right location to die with the empty hill of Golgotha the perfect place to raise three crosses. He was fulfilling the Father's will and returning to the Father. 'Father, into your hands, I commit my spirit!' (Lk 23:46) The purpose of the monastic life then is to return to the Father by placing one's life in the hands of the Father. They do this by the same means as Jesus. They embrace the Paschal Mystery. Dying to this world, they are resurrected in the Heavenly Jerusalem."
"When Christ asks, 'Do you love me above all?', I wish to be able to say in all sincerity, 'There is nothing upon earth that I desire besides you'" (Ps 73:25).









